It's official. I haven't got a single spontaneous bone in my body.
Pinky sms-ed this morning with one line: want to go to SA?
I already knew what she was talking about. She'd mentioned to a few of us that she'd been offered free trips to South Africa.
The story behind it is that this other friend of ours has a company here in Dar. I don't know the exact nature of the business but I believe it has something to do with oil.
Anyway, this friend needs to transport oil samples back to South Africa almost every week presumably to have lab analysis done on them. Tanzania simply does not have the right facilities to support what she wants done.
Long story short, this friend often contacts Pinky and asks her if she'd like to take the samples down to SA (oh and did I mention that it's a Business Class return ticket?) Apparently, it's cheaper to send someone down to South Africa on a return Business Class ticket than to send the samples via DHL (all the wrong things are expensive here in Tanzania).
The samples will be collected at the Jo'berg airport so once that's done, the 'transporter' is free to do as she pleases for as long as she likes (I believe international air tickets are 'open' for at least a month, possibly more for Business Class).
There's only one drawback in this entire scenario. They never know when they'll need someone to go down to SA with the samples. In other words, the 'transporter' has to drop everything and jump on a plane at a moment's notice
Pinky says she finds this really hard to do since her two little boys need her around. I think mothers will tell you that you just don't do 'a moment's notice' when you have a child. The only 'a moment's notice' you do would be to catch valuable and breakable items at 'a moment's notice' when your child knocks them down from the mantel or perhaps rush to the clinic at 'a moment's notice' when he swallows a large coin. Going on holiday and the like is NEVER going to happen at a moment's notice so Pinky is largely not going to make it for the free trip (much to her disappointment).
I have no kids and even Charley (my kitty cat) isn't with me here in Tanzania. The Engineer is a big boy and can take care of himself so what's my excuse? Well, I can only say that anything done at a 'moment's notice' makes me nervous. Throwing caution to the winds makes me feel cautious!
I'm one of those 'what if?" people. What if I don't manage to pack everything on time (Pinky suggests that I should have a bag packed and ready and I didn't listen!) What if the person collecting the samples in SA doesn't turn up? What if I get stuck at immigration and they think I've stolen the samples? What if I run out of money? What if, what if , what if.
My biggest problem is that I have only one place I'd like to stay while I'm in South Africa and that's at Girlfriend and Boss' place. I hadn't informed her and what if I suddenly turned up and she's not there or she gets upset coz she had other plans? What if….here I go again!
Anyway, I don't think Pinky is going to inform me about this again since I'm such a chicken at doing things impulsively. I think I should decide to actually go through with it the next time she calls (if she gives me a second chance!). I'll warn Girlfriend about it beforehand and plan it nicely but if I do all that, then it won't be spur-of-the-moment thing now would it?
I think I'm going to give up and just be happy with my non-adventurous, non-impulsive self! Besides, all those travel-at-a-drop-of-a-hat people would end up starving or worse if there weren't any 'what-if' people like me to plan for eventualities. After all, it takes all kinds to make a go around the world!